How Your Phone Can Help You Beat Stress

Wednesday, August 24, 2011 0 comments

Researchers just discovered thatyour cell (and even your landline—is that what those dinosaurs are called?) has the power to calm you down when you're feeling anxious and overwhelmed. And it can also get your body to release the same feel-good hormone you produce after an orgasm. So what do you have to do? Just make a phone call instead of texting.

By Zoe Ruderman

A biological anthropologist at the University of Wisconsin-Madison led a study that found hearing someone's voice over the phone has the ability to lower the listener's stress levels and boost oxytocin (also called the love hormone). Getting a text, even a very sweet text, however, doesn't have the same effect.

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Talking on the phone also beats out G-chatting, reading a Facebook message, and getting an email in terms of combatting stress.

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The study was done using mother and (stressed-out) young daughter subjects, but it's very possible that the findings would hold true between a girlfriend and boyfriend, or an adult woman and anyone else. We're still waiting on further testing, but in the meantime, do a little experiment: next time you're feeling anxious/nervous/overwhelmed, try calling your guy/a close friend/your mom and see if that calms you down. Then wait for another day when you're particularly stressed and text the same person instead of calling. Does getting a text response from them have the same affect?

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Of course, we're not suggesting you try to transition back to phone calls completely. There are times when texting clearly beats out dialing (eg, discussing the raunchy details of last night's hookup while at the dentist/DMV/your cousin's kid's school play). But we're willing to send a few less texts and make a few more phone calls if it means lowering our stress levels.

15 Minutes to a Longer Life

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In 15 minutes, less time than it takes to watch another rerun of The Office, you can blast calories and increase your chance of a long life.

Just 15 minutes of exercise a day can extend your life by 3 years, according to recent research from Taiwan. The study tracked more than 400,000 people over 13 years and found that participants who completed 15 minutes of moderate exercise a day (think brisk walking) increased their life expectancy by an average of 3 years compared with inactive individuals. The quarter-hour of activity has other benefits, too; the researchers were able to draw a connection between daily exercise and a lower incidence of cancer. And, of course, while you're at it you'll also burn calories—sometimes close to 200 in just 15 minutes.inutes to a Longer Life opener.

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Putting in your time can often be accomplished by doing activities you love, without setting foot inside the gym. Here Ruth Frechman, RD, author of The Food Is My Friend Diet, Keri Gans, RD, author of The Small Change Diet, and Jim White, RD, owner of Jim White Fitness and Nutrition Studios in Virginia Beach, Virginia, suggest some simple ways to get moving.




Jumping Rope

Burn: 167 calories in 15 minutes

Skipping rope isn't just for schoolgirls. Have you ever wondered why boxers are in such great shape? Many of them jump rope to train. "It's like a full-body workout," Frechman says "It's excellent for your legs and heart, and you're also involving your arms and shoulders." A mere 15 minutes of hopping—done either continuously or in short intervals with rest—will melt more than 150 calories.




Mountain Biking

Burn150 calories in 15 minutes

Take your two-wheeler for a quick ride. Just 15 minutes on moderate terrain will vanquish 150 calories. "You'll increase your burn potential if you ride hills or rough terrain, and if it's hot outside you could lose twice as many calories," White says.




Doing Hot Yoga

Burn125 calories in 15 minutes

The 105°F temperature of the room will help you shed calories in a hurry. Just 15 minutes eradicates 125, and some studies show that you can sweat off up to 1,000 during a 90-minute class, White says. Research has shown that yoga may also relieve anxiety and back pain.




Riding a Stationary Bike

Burn115 calories in 15 minutes

The stationary bike's a great option for people with injuries or individuals who want to go easy on their joints, White says. It doesn't burn as many calories as running on the treadmill or using the elliptical, but you will still shed more than 100 calories in a quarter-hour workout.





Playing Tennis

Burn: 107 calories in 15 minutes

There's no need to plan a marathon match àla Isner and Mahut's epic 11-hour showdown, because a mere 15 minutes of doubles play will burn more than 100 calories. "If you're playing singles, the burn is more intense, and playing a competitive partner will increase the calories you lose," White says.





Hiking

Burn: 100 calories in 15 minutes

You'll need to hike only a quarter of an hour up a moderate hill to leave 100 calories in the dust. To burn even more, wear a backpack or weighted vest during your climb, Frechman suggests.




Hitting a Punching Bag

Burn: 100 calories in 15 minutes

A quick punching session will help you alleviate any pent-up aggression and is also a good way to work your biceps, triceps, shoulders, and upper body, according to White. Fifteen minutes of slugging will knock out 100 calories.




Swimming

Burn: 100 calories in 15 minutes

The next time you hit the pool or beach, hop into the water instead of onto the lounge chair. "We're not even talking about heavy-duty swimming. A slow, leisurely swim for 15 minutes will do the trick," Gans says. If you're able to take a dip in the ocean, even better—you'll burn more calories when you're fighting the waves.




Kayaking

Burn: 88 calories in 15 minutes

Give your arms, back, and shoulders a workout with a ride around the local lake; a short cruise will clobber close to 100 calories. To up the burn potential (and the thrills) head for a little whitewater to work against a current or rapids, White recommends.




Walking

Burn: 46 to 100 calories in 15 minutes (2 mph to 4 mph)

The general rule is walking 1 mile burns 100 calories, according to Frechman. Depending on how quickly you're hoofing it, you could walk off up to 100 calories in just 15 minutes! If you don't have time for an extended jaunt, find reasons to walk more throughout the day. Park farther away from your destination, walk over to a coworker's desk instead of sending an email, or stroll to lunch instead of having it delivered.




Dancing

Burn: 75 calories in 15 minutes

The next time you're at a wedding reception, leave your inner-wallflower behind and get on the dance floor. If you boogie for just 15 minutes you'll shimmy off 75 calories according to Gans, which means you can feel less guilty about munching cake. Just think about how much you'll burn if you groove through the entire reception!




Weeding the Garden

Burn: 75 calories in 15 minutes

"Being in the garden can be therapeutic," Gans says. "[By growing and eating your own vegetables] you become more attuned to what you're putting into your body." In addition to burning nearly 100 calories, while you're outside you'll get a supply of Vitamin D from the sun, which is enormously beneficial. The nutrient's been linked to bone health and weight loss.




Playing Table Tennis

Burn: 68 calories in 15 minutes

The paddles may be tiny, but the payoff can be big if you play long enough. Twenty-two minutes—about the length of one game—is enough time to smash 100 calories, and in 15 minutes you'll kill 68. "It's a pretty vigorous game. You're jumping around, picking up balls, and slamming them with your arm; it's a good workout," Frechman says.




Bowling

Burn: 54 calories in 15 minutes

You wouldn't know it by his physique, but maybe the Dude was onto something—just 15 minutes of throwing balls down the alley gets rid of more than 50 calories. However, it doesn't count if you're bowling with a party and there are lags between turns (especially if you're chowing down on pizza and beer in the meantime). According to White, you'll burn calories most effectively if you play with a partner and are stepping up to bowl every other turn.




Frisbee

Burn: 54 calories in 15 minutes

The next time you head to the park with friends, be sure to pack a flying disk. Tossing a Frisbee around (and running after it when it inevitably goes wayward) for fewer than 20 minutes will knock off more than 50 calories, according to White.




Pushing a Baby Stroller

Burn: 46 calories in 15 minutes

"So many parents say to me that when they have young children, they have no time for exercise. I say, put the child in the stroller and go for a walk. It's a win-win situation—the parent gets exercise and the baby gets fresh air," Gans says. In fact, a 15-minute trip around the block will burn 46 postbaby calories.




Window ShoppingBurn:

 38 calories in 15 minutes


As fall fashions hit stores, don't be shy about checking them out. A stroll through the mall could help you fit into a smaller size. By walking around and browsing for an hour, you'll lose 150 calories; a 15-minute errand will blast close to 40. Plus a 2006 study from the University of Calgary in Canada found that mall walking improved overall physical fitness among older adults.

Can Your Ideas About Birth Determine How it Feels?

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HypnoBirthing helps women view birth in a positive way.

HypnoBirthing helps women view birth in a positive way.

Can changing your *ideas* about birth actually change the way it feels? According to the philosophy behind HypnoBirthing, yes.

In a CNN story on HypnoBirthing, Joyce Poplar, a perinatal educator, tells us: "We really focus on relaxation, releasing all the fears that moms have when they're having birth. We're getting rid of the fears, memories, experiences, or the mistaken belief they might have had, so they can move forward with natural childbirth." According this story, HypnoBirthing is becoming more and more popular as women spread the news of their positive experiences to other expecting moms.

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I'm intrigued by HypnoBirthing, as I have seen videos of women laboring using the self-hypnosis techniques and they are quite adept at handling the pain. They seem relaxed and extremely focused. I've head stories from women who have given birth with and without the technique say that with HypnoBirhting the pain was not gone but it was workable. The feeling goes from being one that feels impossible or insurmountable to one that is possible.

So what do they do? From my understanding the moms work with instructors on a whole range of relaxation techniques and then in those relaxed states they work through scripts they've written to themselves emphasizing the power of birth. The language used in HypnoBirthing is completely different from the one you were raised with. There are no contractions, there are surges. You don't push a baby out, your breathe a baby out. Rather than telling yourself what not to do, there's an emphasis on what you can do. Part of the education involves reversing the scary, medical-emergency, *worst pain of your life,* split-you-open-Sins-Of-Eve-agony narrative that's so entrenched in our culture. Instead you learn about how birth is a normal physiological process. It's a bodily function. We are made to do this and it almost always works.

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During labor women visualize their bodies doing the awesome work of birth, rather than being torn asunder. They use the breaks between contractions to restore their energy and belief in their bodies. It does require lots of focus. And I imagine giving birth in a hospital with this method would require a labor partner who can help keep the focus for mom.

I use the word "pain" when I talk about birth. My concern is that I would paint too rosy a picture and women might then feel stranded if/when the first really tough contraction hits. But nevertheless, I think we could all use some deprogramming from the Very Scary Nightmare birth culture most of us have been brought up in. Hollywood hasn't helped much. But also, we're just not around the cycle of life. We don't know about birth. It's all very mysterious, so education about just how normal it is can help. I also think learning some relaxation techniques and emphasizing the importance of trust, confidence and focus (for not just mom but those around her!) is incredibly helpful. I think fear reduces pain but I know from personal experience that it doesn't necessarily take it away. If you become more familiar and comfortable with what happens in birth, however, I think you have more resources to devote to the business of working through the pain.

I have heard that HypnoBirthing is particularly good for women who have lots of anxiety about birth. And that it requires several classes and lots of practice so that you can access that relaxed, positive place rather quickly when you need to.

How to Spot Skin Cancer

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Detecting it early could save your life.

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Is It More Than a Mole?

May is skin cancer month, but for most of us, it's easier to spot-check moles and freckles in late summer, when you're still in minimalist clothes and flip-flops. Be sure to include parts you barely notice (the tops of your feet, "toe cleavage"). Skin cancer is sneaky. Enlist your partner or best bud, and give each other's rear view a thorough look, too. Back sides of arms and legs are trouble spots. What to look for? Coming up. Why bother? Catching skin cancer early almost guarantees a cure.

Perk Up! The Best Sports Bras for Every Size

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By: Sarah D'Angelo

Finally give your girls the support they need. Follow our ultimate sports bra guide -- we tested 50-plus styles --to find your perfect fit.

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Best for A Cups: The North Face Bounce-B-Gone Bra

The North Face Bounce-B-Gone Bra ($28, thenorthface.com)

Tester says: "Exactly as promised, it was super-supportive and comfortable through my hour-long run."


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Best for A Cups: Lucy Support Sport Bra

Lucy Support Sport Bra ($48, lucy.com)

Tester says: "The fabric is so soft, and the style is surprisingly flattering, not flattening."

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Best for B Cups: Champion Double Dry Compression Vented Sports Bra

Champion Double Dry Compression Vented Sports Bra ($30, championusa.com)

Tester says: "Snug and supportive; I felt great running in it."

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Best for B Cups: Moving Comfort Vixen A/B

Moving Comfort Vixen A/B ($36, movingcomfort.com)

Tester says: "My breats stayed put during kickboxing, and the padded cups gave me a boost."

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Best for C Cups: Solid Tech Athena Sports Bra by Moving Comfort for Title Nine

C-cup winner: Solid Tech Athena Sports Bra by Moving Comfort for Title Nine ($42, titlenine.com)

Tester says: "Nearly bounce-free! The adjustable straps are a huge plus."

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Best for C Cups: Nike Padded Definition Bra

Nike Padded Definition ($50, nike.com)

Tester says: "I didn't need to readjust the cups or straps at all during my workout. The material is smooth and sleek."

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Best for D Cups: Lululemon The Bust Stops Here

D-cup winner: Lululemon The Bust Stops Here ($58, lululemon.com)

Tester says: "The band didn't budge during my run, and the cups reduced bounce better than my usual sports bra."

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Best for D Cups: NBx Welded Bra

NBx Welded Bra ($45, newbalance.com)

Tester says: "The molded cups held my breasts in place without an underwire and didn't make me look bigger than I am."

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Best for DD+ Cups: Anita 5527 Extreme Control Soft-Cup Active Bra

Anita 5527 Extreme Control Soft-Cup Active Bra ($66, anita.com for stores)

Tester says: "The bra kept my H cups secure through a run, and it's cute, too. No more layering bras!"

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Best for DD+ Cups: Enell Sports Bra

Enell Sports Bra ($66, enell.com)

Tester says: "Very snug and utilitarian, but once you get it on, nothing moves. It's great for a high-impact workout."

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